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I love everything beauty, I have a youtube channel and a beauty blog. But that's not all Im about. This blog is a place where I tell you everything else thats not beauty related. I will be doing alot of cool stuff on here. Now you can get to know me and we can share something more than beauty. If you have any requests or questions leave me a comment. I love giving advice.
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Sunday, July 25, 2010

Boyz Boyz Boyz

I want to talk alittle bit about relationships today! I have been thinking about them a lot. ok so, I have a boyfriend right, I have been going out with him for almost 4 years, ever since I was 18 years old. Like in 85% of long term relationship, there is always something wrong with the guy. Sometimes I have a hard time because I want him to be more affectionate, lower the man ego down a couple of levels, know how to comfort me when Im down and know how to talk to me when I have a problem, and say sweet things out of the blue, ughhh..etc... Ok like seriously, us girls we need all that little stuff, it sure makes a big difference in how we feel. Guys just dont understand it. But we always do all the little stuff for them that matter and they dont think we need it to. Ok so first of all one thing that really really really bothers me is when guys cant say sorry to you. I mean why is it so hard to say sorry? I dont get why there has to be a fight or I have to get upset just cause the guy cant get those two words out of his mouth. I wish that they would just understand how you feel and not only say sorry to you when they hurt your feeling but actually explain to you that they didn't mean to hurt you and on and on .. you girls get my point right. I mean it just feels right when they do that because you feel like they really do care about you and how you feel. Another thing that totally gets me is when I have a problem or Im feeling down or Im not in the best of moods and they just avoid it. Like, they dont know how to talk with you and comfort you, you know like make you laugh and make you feel happy again or better about your problem. Instead of helping the situation your in, they tend to make it worst because when they avoid it it feels like they dont care. Its like you love them so much but some things are just to important to you. Even though I love him, the qualities he is missing are way to important to me. I cant be happy with someone without them. You just cant change a person, if they really love you they will appreciate you and try there best to attend all your needs cause you know we all have them. Yes, we all have needs. One thing I am going to tell you girls, dont think your life revolves around your guy cause that will totally make you unattractive over time. guys like someone that has there own thing going on. Not only that, but, if you got your own thing going on, you will always be happy cause all you need is you. I am not in a rush to get married and you shouldn't be either. You got to think about your future, not husband wise, ok lady's. Think about the future, career wise instead! When you do that your perfect guy will come to you, why you ask? well because guys are attracted to that. who doesn't like a smart beautiful girl, right. Anyways girls, thats all the randomness I have for today. ttyl

XOXO Steph


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